關于習慣的名言大(dà)家耳熟能詳的有：“孩子成功教育從(cóng)好習慣培養開始”—巴金和“習慣形成性格，性格決定命運”—約·凱恩斯【美】，爲此今天我們也一起看(kàn)看(kàn)美國(guó)學校針對學生(shēng)習慣養成所繪制的The
7 Habits
Tree（七個習慣樹(shù)）海報，用一棵大(dà)樹(shù)來(lái)形象得(de)比喻孩子一生(shēng)需要培養的好習慣。從(cóng)樹(shù)根開始，從(cóng)下往上這七個習慣像一棵小樹(shù)一樣逐漸長成參天大(dà)樹(shù)。
讓我們一起來(lái)看(kàn)看(kàn)這七個習慣樹(shù)的詳細注解吧(ba)，希望對各位父母們有所幫助：
proactive 有前瞻性的，先行一步的；積極主動的
第一個習慣：Be proactive － you're in charge
積極主動，我的人(rén)生(shēng)我負責
I am a responsible person. I take initiative.
I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong
actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is
looking.
我對自(zì)己負責，做事積極主動。我管理(lǐ)自(zì)己的行爲、态度和情緒。我做了錯事不怪别人(rén)，不用别人(rén)說(shuō)我也會去(qù)做正确的事情，哪怕沒有人(rén)在看(kàn)。
第二個習慣：Begin with the end in mind - Have a
plan 有目标，有計(jì)劃
I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that
have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and
contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good
citizen.
做事前我會定計(jì)劃和目标，我做有意義和帶來(lái)積極影(yǐng)響的事。我是班級裡(lǐ)的重要一員(yuán)，爲學校事務做貢獻，我希望成爲一個好公民(mín)。
第三個習慣：Put first things first - Work first,
then play 做事分(fēn)清主次，先工作，後娛樂
I spend my time on things that are most
important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set
priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and
organized.
我在重要的事情上花時間，不該做的事，我勇于說(shuō)不。我制定優先級，做日(rì)程表并按此執行我的計(jì)劃。我有自(zì)制力，做事井井有條。
第四個習慣：Think win-win - Everyone can win
從(cóng)互赢角度考慮問(wèn)題，利己利人(rén)
I balance courage for getting what I want
with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional
Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
我勇于争取自(zì)己想要的，但(dàn)我同時也會考慮别人(rén)的需求。我在别人(rén)的情感銀行帳号裡(lǐ)放(fàng)入我的存款。有矛盾的時候，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。
第五個習慣：Seek first to understand, then to be
understood 先去(qù)理(lǐ)解别人(rén)，再求被人(rén)理(lǐ)解
I listen to other people's ideas and
feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without
interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people the eyes when
talking.
我仔細聆聽别人(rén)的想法和情感，我努力從(cóng)他(tā)人(rén)角度去(qù)理(lǐ)解問(wèn)題。聽别人(rén)說(shuō)話(huà)的時候我不插嘴、不打擾。我很有信心說(shuō)出我自(zì)己的主意，别人(rén)說(shuō)話(huà)的時候，我直視他(tā)的眼睛。
第六個習慣：Synergize － Together is better
協同－合作會更好
I value other people's strengths and learn
from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me.
I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because
I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of
us can alone. I am humble.
我珍重别人(rén)的優點，向他(tā)們學習。我和大(dà)家很好相(xiàng)處，即使他(tā)們和我很不一樣。我能有效地進行團隊合作，因爲我知道合作比單打獨鬥能帶來(lái)更好的解決方案，我保持謙虛的精神。
第七個習慣：Sharpen the saw－Balance feels best
磨刀不誤砍柴工，尋求健康和平衡
I take care of my body eating right,
exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in
lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to
help others.
我注重飲食、鍛煉和睡眠。我花時間和家人(rén)、朋友在一起。我在各種地方都(dōu)能以各種方式學到很多東西－學習的地方可(kě)不止于學校。我用有意義的方式去(qù)幫助别人(rén)。
